Boys!?!

Ahahahaa, this is only my 5th blog and I am already so itchy to blog about the opposite gender. Funny isn't it.

The other day I was talking to someone online about relationships and the things that we learn after breaking up. He said something that I have definitely heard elsewhere, but for some reason this time around the words continue to linger inside my head. 

I seriously ask myself why is this statement lingering? Is it because of the the life stage that I'm at? Or because I hear ridiculous, sketchy stories about what some guys do? Maybe it's because I have my own bias observations of the opposite gender? I honestly can't pin point exactly why, or even why Im blogging about it at 12am instead of sleeping. But yes, regardless, here I am and these were the words...

"The guy needs to risk it and put it out there. If you are scared of defining the relationship, then you don't deserve a relationship."

Ahhhh APPLAUSE!! Ahahahahahaa very well said, I'd have to say!!

Of course, of course, a guy cannot just pull the trigger at every little, tiny, miniscule, feeling that arises. Sho~oot, if that were the case, then wow, people would be in broken relationships everywhere (there are many cases in the world like this). I definitely don't want this to occur.

BUT, dang, can guys stop being so sketchy. If you like the freaking girl then do your homework and go for it. Stop beating around the bush and having these pseudo relationships that confuse the girl and cause her to wonder and think and then even get hurt in the end. And if you don't like her, then stop leading her on. Don't give her special attention and don't go out of your way to talk to her. I really believe that most girls have this 6th sense of knowing. I can't speak for every girl, but most do.

So, MAN-UP! Ahahahaha...I heard from Kav that if you use this on a guy, then they have to do it otherwise it hurts their man pride =D.

Puahahahaa...like I said, I don't know exactly why I'm blogging about this. I think maybe it's pent up frustration from stories that I have been hearing and when I heard that quote it was exactly what I needed to blog!

But anyways. I honestly, don't know how many people actually read my blog, but it feels good to get this off my mind. =D

If you are a guy and you are reading this, it may not pertain to you. So thanks for listening...ahaha. But if it does...if you get even a little, tiny, inkling that this is you, then get some accountability, do your homework, and do what you think is the most selfless and most honoring to that sister. Or, just stop being sketchy and let that sister be, because you don't deserve that relationship anyway...=D

AHHHHHHH...Okay, Im refreshed...Ahahahahahaha!

Love yous!! =D Guys too! =)

Irene Lee, did you see the idiom that I used? Hyeri did you understand? Puahahaha...